I know this because I've personally experienced the beauty of honesty and truth in a relationship...
Almost exactly a year from our first meeting, we ran into each other again, at a mutual friend's party. This time around, something just clicked. We went on our first date the very next day, and haven't stopped since. It didn't take long before we reflected back to our first meeting, and my failed attempts to capture his heart. And the reason behind his indifference was actually more heartfelt and genuine than I could have expected. That first night we met, he was single. He was not in a relationship. But there was another woman in his life that he was interested in, and that was enough to shut off his awareness of anything else around him. Despite my determined hints and flirting attempts, he was completely oblivious to anything besides this other girl. By the time we met again a year later, he had no other ties owning his attention.
Our first date was more than two and a half years ago. Now, I'm more than just some girl he might be interested in; I'm his girlfriend. And even in rocky moments of our relationship, I've never once doubted his loyalty to me or his honesty. He only has eyes for me, and I for him. While he might be a bit forgetful, he has never lied to me. And I know he never will.
From one Andee to another Andi - Good luck on your journey. Remember: no one can completely fall for you until you allow yourself to completely fall for them. Don't make the mistake of allowing doubt into a growing romance. Let the truth shine on its own, through your actions.